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10 Dating Tips For Guys

January 26th, 2010 ClipHairExtensions No comments

Dating has been observed lately as more relaxed and informal. As a part of the male species, this is a sign that dating has opened its doors for you. Now, dating would be less difficult to do. To make thing easier for you, here are the 10 Dating tips for guys. Read on.
Tip #1: Try to look your best.
Remember that a date, especially the first date, is the time for fist impressions, which they say, will last forever. Try to achieve a cool, confident look by knowing what to wear. The casual look is the first choice of many, but it really depends on the clothes that you are comfortable wearing. Be it a t-shirt, polo or jacket, what matters most is the fact that it is ironed and not wrinkly, has zero dirt stains and looks perfectly good on you. Now that you have an idea on what to wear, let’s go to the scent.
According to dating experts, a guy’s smell will either increase your points or turn-off a girl. Be it a cologne or perfume; make sure to spray on the right amount and at the right places! Spray a moderate amount on the sides of your necks, wrist and chest. Brush your teeth, style your hair (or get a descent haircut), bring a handkerchief (especially when you’re eating out), cut your nails and check your face in the mirror. Now, you’re ready to go!
Tip#2: Be on time.
Patience may be a virtue, but being late is rude and a sign of being uninterested. Have a list of “things to do” to be aware of time. If the girl is late, try telling her to make up for it by buying you a drink, bit in a teasing and gentle voice.
Tip#3: Find the best place.
You and your date should agree where to go beforehand. As an alpha male take control and have a plan where to meet. Suggest a coffee shop, the fair or even a local eatery that is cheap but serves good food. If it seems that the two of you have different ideas, try to compromise. Let her decide and the next date will be yours. Just remember to find a place where the two of will be comfortable while having fun at the same time.
Tip#4: Mind your manners.
All the things that your mom taught you about etiquettes are helpful during a date. Show her that you are a gentleman by opening the door car, pulling a chair for her to sit down. Use your utensils properly and eat with grace. Believe me; all of these will matter to her.
Tip#5: Make sure you can spit good game.
Nobody likes a boring date, so make an effort to communicate with her. Remember that you are not here to impress her, but to get to know each other. Ask her questions and let her ask you the same things. Say the right thing at the right place. If it’s your first date, then try avoiding topics like your ex, her ex, politics and other embarrassing questions.
Tip#6: Be spontaneous.
The best dating tip for guys that I can give is to be spontaneous. Don’t be too conscious and keep thinking about what will happen next. Stop asking yourself if she’s having fun.
Be laid back and most of all be relaxed. Everything will fall into places, as long as the two of you are having fun.
Tip#7: The payment method.
Usually, the men pay the bill. But there are always instances where girls prefer to shoulder the expense. On a first date never take her to the fine restaurant and spend gobs of cash. A cup of coffee and a cheap lunch is the way to go. When the bill comes just say, “Don’t worry I got it’s no big deal”. You only take your girlfriend to a nice restaurant and even then only take her once and awhile.
Tip#8: Make the Best of your date.
Every date should be memorable, so try to make the best out of it. How to do it depends on you and your girl. Make her feel special, as it will guarantee a follow-up date.
Tip#9: The Kissing game.
Now, here’s the most asked dating tip for guys, should I kiss my date? The answer still lays on you, my friend. You must look for some signals she may be transmitting such as; she’s looking at you with an intense gaze, she licks her lips while looking at you, she laughs as everything you say, or she does the hair toss. These are all signs she is interested and a kiss is right around the corner.
Tip#10: The Phone Call.
There are some rules that say you should wait two days. There is nothing wrong in calling her the following day but don’t make a big deal out of it. As a confident man you move through life at your pace. As far as what to talk about simply pick up from the last conversation you had with her the day before so it’s still fresh in her mind.

10 Tips For Attracting Women

January 25th, 2010 ClipHairExtensions No comments

When it comes to attracting beautiful women, there are TONS of techniques, styles, and even routines.No matter what you read, no matter what you try, the same basic principals to attracting women will always be the same. Here are a few that come to mind:
1. Even though physical looks don’t matter that much. Always be presentable. Always have a fresh hair-cut, brush your teeth, fix your hair, shave your face, and wear decent clothes.
2. Vary your attention. Give her all of your attention one day, then the next, cut her off. This will send so many mixed signals through her head, she will not know what to do, but she will know she must have you. She will eventually learn to crave your attention.
3. Body Language. Always stand up straight. Don’t make sudden movements. Move slowly, and take up as much room as possible. This gives off an “alpha” dominance vibe to you.
4. Learn to be sexy! Don’t be afraid to give off a sexual vibe or say a sexual thing. If you don’t, the girl will not see you as a sexual being. You will be put into the friends zone and you will never get out.
5. Learn to play to their desires. Most girls will say they want a man on a white horse wearing shining armor to take her off some where romantic. They might say this, but believe me, this is NOT the case. ALL women (NO EXCEPTIONS) want a man that will challenge them. They don’t want their man to agree with everything they say. They want to their men to be difficult.
6. As much as women love good men, they love the thought of turning a “bad man” good JUST as much. Never be afraid to crack a joke on her. Don’t be mean or say anything demeaning of course. Be playful, like if she buys new ear-rings, tell her that she’s almost sexy enough to sleep with you.
7. Get an interesting hobby. Nothing interests a woman more then a man that has a good skill. Pick up a guitar, learn how to play a piano, pick up a bodybuilding magazine or two. The point of this tip is to NOT be boring. Have something you can associate yourself with that is not normal.
8. Let her do most of the talking. The fact of the matter is, the less you talk, the less chance you have of putting your foot in your mouth. Also, women (people in general actually) LOVE talking about themselves, so indulge them.
9. Be the prize. Always have a mind-set that you’re the prize. This is where most men fail. They automatically put the girl on a higher social level then themselves and make her the prize. You’re the prize, and you know it.
10. Last but certainly not least, confidence. This is the single most important skill when picking up women. This will make or break you. Women LOVE confidence. Never be afraid to go up and approach a woman. Never be afraid to something a bit edgy or sexy. Have confidence in EVERYTHING you do. Remember, you are the man.
If you follow these 10 tips, you will NEVER be alone on a Saturday night. Attracting women is easy guys, but remember, the biggest step is to actually get out there and try.