Do want to know how to tell if a woman is attracted to you?
I bet you do!
One joke I used to tell with my friends is how I wished women had a “magical light bulb” which shines every time they were attracted to me. It would take all the guesswork out of trying to figure out which women to approach.
Unfortunately there’s no such thing as a magical light bulb!
In order to understand if a woman has attraction, you have to study her body language. If you can detect certain signs of flirting when observing her, then you’ll know she’s attracted to you.
So what are these signs of flirting?
Well in the next few paragraphs, I’ll reveal 8 flirting cues which women send you. If you see ANY of these, you’ll know she’s attracted to you:
Flirting Cue #1- She’s laughing with her friends and looking back at you
Women understand the fact that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. If you see a woman laughing with her friends and then quickly glancing in your direction, you know she’s trying to demonstrate a sense of humor.
By showing off this type of behavior she hopes you’ll pick up on her “fun lifestyle” and will be interested in her.
Flirting Cue #2- She keeps on looking right at you
One way women get men to approach them is to directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. Some will even give a nice smile.
This is probably one of the most obvious flirting signs you’ll receive from a woman!
Flirting Cue #3- She’s checking you out
Yes it’s true…
Women often check out guys!
To detect if a girl is checking you out, watch if she does the ‘vertical scan’.
This is where she’ll look at your face and then moving her eyes from her feet to your heard.
This flirting signal means she’s found something attractive about you and would like see more.
Flirting Cue #4- She’ll try to look best for you
When a woman knows you’ve observed her, she’ll make a quick effort to look her best for you.
To do this, she’ll preen her hair and clothes.
What’s great is these actions are subconscious, so she has little control over doing this. When you see this flirting cue, you know she’s trying to look her best for you.
When you see any of these 4 flirting cues, approach and start talking to her!
Flirting Cue #5- She will open herself up to you
Now once you’ve approach her, you should try to detect a few different flirting cues to detect if she wants you to kiss her or take things to the next level.
The first sign to look for is if she’s trying to open herself up!
When a woman displays an “openness” with her body language, she’s demonstrating a classic sign of attraction.
Open body language means her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you.
Flirting Cue #6- She’ll stroke herself
When a woman is talking to you she’ll show a sign of flirting by stroking her neck or touching her hair. Also she might even her thigh!
I personally LOVE seeing these signs of flirting!
That’s because when a woman touches these sensitive areas, she’s probably thinking about what YOU could do to them.
Flirting Cue #7- She’ll draw closer to you
Another great sign of flirting is when a woman will draw closer to you during your conversation. She’ll do this to show a desire to create more intimacy during your conversation.
Another trick is she’ll lower her voice to have you draw closer to you!
When you see this, you’re receiving an incredible sign of attraction!
Flirting Cue #8- She’ll scan your face including your eyes and lips
This final flirting cue demonstrates a desire that she wants to be kissed!
When a woman moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, she’s showing a classic sign of flirting where she’s thinking about you kissing her.
When you see this flirting sign, act right away…
Start kissing her!
Once you do this, you’ll be on the road towards making things more intimate!
Women give subtle signals to men which indicate attraction.
When you take the time to look for flirting cues, you’ll discover she’s sending signals which mean she wants to get to know you better and make things more intimate!
So pay attention and you’ll be happy with the results!
When it comes to attracting beautiful women, there are TONS of techniques, styles, and even routines.No matter what you read, no matter what you try, the same basic principals to attracting women will always be the same. Here are a few that come to mind:
1. Even though physical looks don’t matter that much. Always be presentable. Always have a fresh hair-cut, brush your teeth, fix your hair, shave your face, and wear decent clothes.
2. Vary your attention. Give her all of your attention one day, then the next, cut her off. This will send so many mixed signals through her head, she will not know what to do, but she will know she must have you. She will eventually learn to crave your attention.
3. Body Language. Always stand up straight. Don’t make sudden movements. Move slowly, and take up as much room as possible. This gives off an “alpha” dominance vibe to you.
4. Learn to be sexy! Don’t be afraid to give off a sexual vibe or say a sexual thing. If you don’t, the girl will not see you as a sexual being. You will be put into the friends zone and you will never get out.
5. Learn to play to their desires. Most girls will say they want a man on a white horse wearing shining armor to take her off some where romantic. They might say this, but believe me, this is NOT the case. ALL women (NO EXCEPTIONS) want a man that will challenge them. They don’t want their man to agree with everything they say. They want to their men to be difficult.
6. As much as women love good men, they love the thought of turning a “bad man” good JUST as much. Never be afraid to crack a joke on her. Don’t be mean or say anything demeaning of course. Be playful, like if she buys new ear-rings, tell her that she’s almost sexy enough to sleep with you.
7. Get an interesting hobby. Nothing interests a woman more then a man that has a good skill. Pick up a guitar, learn how to play a piano, pick up a bodybuilding magazine or two. The point of this tip is to NOT be boring. Have something you can associate yourself with that is not normal.
8. Let her do most of the talking. The fact of the matter is, the less you talk, the less chance you have of putting your foot in your mouth. Also, women (people in general actually) LOVE talking about themselves, so indulge them.
9. Be the prize. Always have a mind-set that you’re the prize. This is where most men fail. They automatically put the girl on a higher social level then themselves and make her the prize. You’re the prize, and you know it.
10. Last but certainly not least, confidence. This is the single most important skill when picking up women. This will make or break you. Women LOVE confidence. Never be afraid to go up and approach a woman. Never be afraid to something a bit edgy or sexy. Have confidence in EVERYTHING you do. Remember, you are the man.
If you follow these 10 tips, you will NEVER be alone on a Saturday night. Attracting women is easy guys, but remember, the biggest step is to actually get out there and try.
It never ceases to amaze me looking at how poorly some guys dress when they go out to a club, bar or just the mall. All these places are opportunities to meet women and yet I see guys appearing like dorks or flat out unkempt and dirty. Looking like a bum will earn you no points with women in the “looks” department.
If you are one of these guys that has been wearing the same old stained t-shirt for the past five years or thinks wearing a sports jersey to a club is high fashion then take the time to reevaluate your wardrobe and donate all your old clothing and purchase new cloths. There is nothing wrong in experimenting with a new look. Start off with one item and slowly work your way in adopting more articles of clothing that will be your new wardrobe.
When I moved from New York City to Southern California I neither wore board shorts nor sandals. After some time I began to experiment with a pair and I felt okay wearing, after all I live near a beach community so it makes perfect sense. However, I drop that attire when I hit the club and I’ll put on a button down shirt with a nice pair of jeans and shoes.
Consider what I’m about to say one of life’s mysteries there is no explaining it just simply accept it. Pay in particular attention the shoes you wear. Women will look at a man and the first thing she will notice is what kind of shoes he’s wearing. You should have a minimum of four pairs, two pairs of dress shoes in black and brown and two pairs of casual shoes, again in brown and black.
Also it doesn’t hurt to buy a nice bottle of cologne. My personal favorites are from Jean Paul Gaultier and Bulgari for men. Throw away that bottle of old spice and kick it up a notch with a new scent but don’t over do it with the cologne. Nothing is more disgusting than someone that has sprayed half a bottle on their body..
Some common sense tips as far as hygiene is concerned bath every day with soap and water. I recommend lathering up twice and clean your body thoroughly Brush your teeth and use mouth wash for those of you with yellow or stained teeth try using those over the counter teeth whiteners. Shave everyday or make sure your facial hair is neatly trimmed and well groomed. Believe me this will go a long way women are not attracted to guys that don’t take care of themselves.
Let’s be honest do you have the same hair cut since you were 15? Visit a salon and get some advise from a stylist they are experts in knowing what hair cut is most appropriate for your face. Change your look and you may notice more women opening up to you. Don’t be afraid of change, it’s healthy mentally and who knows you may like it.
By no means do I suggest that expensive cloths will get the girl – on the contrary women will look at a man’s personality and masculinity above all else. What I do argue is that looking clean and presentable will open you up to more women.
Don’t overdo the personal care here, I mean don’t become a ‘meterosexual’ and book an appointment for a manicure, pluck your eyebrows and start reading Cosmo. Deep down confident men are comfortable with their looks no matter what however they also take care of themselves. There is nothing wrong with a man looking his best, having a nice hair cut, wearing nice cloths and smelling good. The point here is not to over do it and keep it normal.
